Sunday, May 12, 2013

A Day for Mums

Haven never seen so many profile picture changes.
Black and white, sepia, colour... young mums, middle aged mums....

And no matter whose picture it was, it made me feel good.

While there are some who ask questions like why just this one day?
We love our mother's every day.
Why display our affection on social media?

I feel this flood of pictures on social media have behind them, a loving call today to mums, a lunch or dinner date if they are in town, a long distance gift or more.
I feel most mums who are actually on social media would have felt proud to see this expression.

That's what celebrations are for.
No matter how much we see celebrations can be every day, there are always special days where we set aside every thing else.

And though I know there are many who will deny this, I also feel that this day has become what it is for them and their mums, because of social media.
The effort of looking for a picture from an old album comes flush with memories of yesteryears.
You remember selfless nights and days of young mums , times when they were firm but gave you an extra hug at night, the smiles, the tears.
You feel good when you see others talking about how good your mum looks or looked.

You feel a stronger connection.
You make that call again.
You tell her she is special.
You look at that picture again and again every time someone hits a Like or keys a comment.
You feel good.
She feels better.
And special.

And for one day, the bonds are tighter than ever before.

2 comments:

  1. Different facets of mums
    Stage 1 the nourisher/nurturer
    Stage 2 the educator/defender/shield
    Stage 3 the disciplinarian/mortal enemy
    Stage 4 the friend/confidant
    Stage 5 the one to be nourished and nurtured with love.

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  2. Different facets of mums
    Stage 1 the nourisher/nurturer
    Stage 2 the educator/defender/shield
    Stage 3 the disciplinarian/mortal enemy
    Stage 4 the friend/confidant
    Stage 5 the one to be nourished and nurtured with love.

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